There are two types of friends in this world…
1. The kind that use you
2. The kind that you use
Its a sad truth but everyone uses each other to get to their “destination”, “aim”, “goal”, “destiny” and what not. Thing is thou, using each other isn’t something bad. We are here to help right? Can never be too selfish can we?
BUT..
When is it TOO much?
When is it too much, where is the point where you go “Alright, I got enough?” Often no one knows and no one really care because we are using or being used so much that you do not feel it anymore..
Take a step back and take a broader look at the whole situation. Think of the people around you that falls in category 1 (ones that use you) and category 2 (ones that you use)
Is there something in common between the people in the same category?
Most likely… YES..
We tend to take advantage of certain people and lets face it.. you know you are doing it but you are enjoying it so much you just do not admit it.. PLUS they are kinda HAPPY being used by you..
This brings us to TYPE 2 (ones that use you)… This type of people tend to be the ones you like, the ones you look up to or the ones you want to hang around but they always seems “too cool for you”. You are more then HAPPY to be used by them, it feels as if its a honour.
Do you see the link??
You make use of someone while someone else is making use of you….
Its all a cycle.. what goes around comes around…
But at the end of the day.. its this that makes the world go round… Having say that, it is always good to be aware of how you are using others and how others are using you because sometimes..
TOO MUCH IS TOO MUCH…
Period…
